"Arre the ideologies don't match, the states of mind are different. It takes a man a while to get his bearings right, but a woman is always 5 years ahead. So to be happy, a man should always find a woman who is younger than him. This is the truth Chennakeshav, live by it"
I honestly didn't buy this logic, particularly because i was 17 when i was given this secret and the women would be 12 years old - Gross - right.
I went about my life, hitting on girls my age, and older in some cases. Struck out for the next five years, each an every time. Guess what i found out in that time, most of those girls were either already hitched, or in the process of being hitched to a guy senior to them by at least 4 - 5 years.
So after five years, now i am actually in the situation to hit on these women and not be called a pervert right?
WRONG - I still think this is not the way to go about it. I mean these girls are five whole years younger than me right? They are young man, kids really.... So if i hit on them i will feel like a big pervert. Society probably does not shun it, but i would like to stay away from this.
Then again, thats what everybody is doing, so whether i like it or not - this probably is the way it goes. This is my sticky conundrum......
Oh, to be truly honest with you, i think that i am scared of hitting on these women, lest i strike out again....to kids.....what a blow to an already battered self esteem.
You know what i am saying.
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